Dating Advice my lover is not romantic

Men are hard to train, a lot of men are not romantic as our dating advice experts have often found out. You love romance or at least would like a little every now and then. Maybe he doesn't think it's important or doesn't understand what romance is about and how it can fill you up with excitement and love. So what do you do? Go through life with a hum drum, boring relationship that's lacking passion? No way!


Instead of saying, "My husband/boyfriend isn't romantic." Women today are creating their own romance. And there's a great side effect, their men are learning from it. Without even trying, these women are teaching their men how to be romantic. Their relationships are growing and passion is on the rise.

It sounds good, and it's easy. Read on to find out some great tips to help you get started.

Remember that romance is a state of mind. There are no wrong ways to create romance. Whatever feels good to you; he doesn't care, remember, "He's Not Romantic." Besides it's not really about him, you are the one who wants to feel romance.


Don't be discouraged if you get an unfavorable comment the first time you create romance. Just tell him that you enjoy the romantic atmosphere. He may be trying to put up a macho front. In time, he’ll understand how much better your relationship can be with romance.


Pick a place to hang out such as on the patio, kitchen or living room. Clear the area of any unsightly items; you want to feel comfortable there. Next, you can dim the lights, add some candle light, maybe have a drink in a fancy glass. If you choose the kitchen, think about getting the nice dishes out and serving munchies or even your favorite dinner.


Music makes a nice background to a romantic evening. Pick music that makes you happy. No elevator music, that will only put you to sleep. To get him involved you can ask him what drink or music he'd like.


The sky is the limit, do whatever makes you feel good. Before long, you will be a pro at creating romance and he'll understand how romance brings passion into your life.